Okay, I am not going to spend my time writing about how tough things are, you already know that. Economically we are still having some problems. The entire financial system is still in a bind (internationally) and the realities are that it is not getting better anytime soon.
The issue I am having is that I continue to read stories of past colleagues and friends experiencing some less than savory ethical situations among their competition. Specifically, I read a recent post discussing the pitfalls of dealing with short sales in the real estate arena and some of the practices that were being experienced to get these listings some attention. Essentially, the agents involved were lying about the properties.
So it left me wondering, when times are tough why do people resort to jeopardizing their integrity and ethical standards to try and carry out a living? I do not get it. It never, ever, ever, ever pays off. And, worse it hurts so many people during the process, especially the perpetrator.
I am going to paraphrase an old saying that goes something like this,…..”Why climb a tree to tell a lie when it is so much easier to stand on the ground and tell the truth?” Pretty simple if you ask me.
No doubt tough times create stress and anxiety in peoples lives. Business, cash flow and revenue drops, money gets tight, bills have to be paid, basic needs have to be met, a recipe for a very stressful circumstance – no doubt. But here is my take on stress, It is almost always self induced. (IMHO) And, that is mostly due to making poor decisions in the first place. Why create more stress by misrepresenting the truth? Just stop doing it! Do the right thing and let the rest take of itself. If you have to resort to these tactics, maybe it is time to go do something else.
Keep practicing the principles of building solid relationships, taking care of your current customers and I promise it will get better.
Stay Sharp and good luck!
Until next time my friends,
Bo






Your movements are more planned out and more deliberate. When you approach a particularly difficult water hazard, you get out of your boat and scout the rapid to see how to navigate it and then after some planning, you get back in your boat and paddle hard and run it.
I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”